Good morning stable ones!

I want to encourage you today to RULE OVER YOUR EMOTIONS instead of being led by your feelings. Romans 8:14 says,

“Be led by the Spirit…”, (NOT your feelings).

God made us triune beings – We are a spirit, have a soul (this is our mind, will, and emotions) and live in a physical body.

Throughout life, we obviously are going to FEEL things – we all have emotions. Emotions in themselves are neither good or bad ~ They can be helpful or they can be harmful ~ it all depends on how we handle them.

We know that one of the main areas that satan works in is in the area of our minds.

See, our emotions are directly linked with our thinking. So, the enemy is going to do his best to use our emotions against us. He knows if he can deceive us by just living by our FEELINGS, then he will be able to keep us in defeat. So many people are falling right into this trap. They just let their emotions run their lives.

If they get up in the morning in a bad mood, feeling lousy, then they just follow that FEELING and go around all day depressed. They go to work and when somebody aggregates them, they FEEL like telling them off and they just follow that FEELING. They go to the store and if they FEEL like buying something, even though they cannot afford it, they buy it, just letting their emotions take over.

But family, we cannot just follow our FEELINGS around and expect to have victory in our lives. We have got to understand, we cannot depend on our FEELINGS. FEELINGS will lead us astray ~ FEELINGS are constantly changing.

You can FEEL “up” one moment and “down” the next. Nobody can guarantee you HOW you are going to FEEL. So, we have got to make a decision: Are we going to follow our FEELINGS and go around negative and sour, or are we going to CHOOSE to rule over our EMOTIONS and CHOOSE to be joyful in spite of how we FEEL?

See, our emotions will lead us every which way. The Scripture says that when we follow our emotions, it is like we are being tossed to and fro, like the waves of the sea, and are unstable in all our ways (Ephesians 4:14; James 1:6-8).

The truth is: We are never going to get away from having negative FEELINGS and emotions, so we are going to have to learn how to control them and not let them control us!

I will be honest with you – it is much easier to do whatever we FEEL ~ It is much easier to throw a tantrum when we do not get our way than it is to stay calm and cool. See, the easiest thing to do is to just let your flesh have its way, but when we live those kinds of lazy, undisciplined lives, it is going to keep us in mediocrity. The Bible says in Proverbs 16:32 (NLT),

It is better to have self-control than it is to rule a city.

Self-control is just what is sounds like – You have got to control YOURSELF! In other words, when you feel your emotions flaring up and you want to tell someone off, you have got to exercise self-control and keep your mouth closed!

Self-control means you are exercising restraint. The Bible says in Romans 8:8,

Those who live the life of the flesh cannot please God.

The amplified version tells us what it means to live the life of the flesh: It says,

Those who cater to the appetites and impulses of the carnal nature cannot please God.

This means that you just give your flesh whatever it wants.

So many people are living just like that ~ Just catering to their flesh. They just do anything they FEEL like doing. The Scripture says, “When we live that kind of shallow life, it is not pleasing to God. And when we do not please God, we are not going to receive His blessings.”

Spiritual maturity does not have anything to do with how long you have been a Christian ~ it has everything to do with what kind of fruit you are displaying in your life. Are you RULING OVER YOUR EMOTIONS? Are you walking in love? Are you treating people with respect? Are you doing the right thing when the wrong thing is happening to you? Or, are you just living by your FEELINGS ~ Always catering to your flesh?

If we are going to grow up, we have got to learn to do the right thing, especially when we do not FEEL like it.

The Bible says in Romans 8:13,

The flesh wants to be a dictator in our lives.

Your flesh wants to RULE OVER YOUR LIVES. So, you must choose instead to RULE OVER YOUR EMOTIONS and not let them rule over you! Choose what kind of day you are going to have. Choose to be happy and joyful in spite of how you FEEL. Say, “Father, I thank You that You always cause me to triumph. I know this is the day that You have made: I am going to rejoice and be glad in it. I am excited about what You have in store for me.”

Paul said in 1 Corinthians 15:31,

I die daily to my flesh.

He said, “Every day, I crucify my flesh. Every day, I rule over my EMOTIONS.” This is what it takes to become mature. In 1 Corinthians 3:3, there is a test that we can take to see if we are spiritual or un-spiritual ~ This is from the amplified version and it says,

You are unspiritual, having the nature of the flesh, when you are under the control of ordinary impulses.

In other words, as long as we are just living by our feelings; as long as we are just letting our EMOTIONS run our lives, then we are immature and we will not receive what God has in store for us!

No matter how mature we get, we are never going to get to the point where we do not have these ordinary, emotional impulses ~ The whole key is to NOT give in to them! I exhort you to follow after wisdom and NOT follow after your FEELINGS!

Let us make a decision that from this day forward, we are going to do better. We are going to RULE OVER OUR EMOTIONS. We are going to keep our flesh under ~ We are NOT going to live by our FEELINGS. If we will do that, God will promote us; He will take us to new levels of victory, and that is where we will experience the fullness of what God has in store for us.

Ruling over my emotions,

Lisa Gordon💖

Gordon Ministries and Jesus City Church✨